Psychologists say that the vast majority of our complexes begins in childhood. Modern doctors, recognizing psychosomatic origin of most diseases, also tend to look for its causes in early childhood, when Psychotrauma there often are forgotten quickly, but remain in the subconscious mind forever.LOOKING CONFLICT
Famous Austrian homeopath M Dorji said, "When you heal the child, learn the history of the family, looking to the conflict." Modern research psychosomatic medicine confirmed by the words of the founder of homeopathy Hanneman that a lot of painful disorders "are determined and supported emotional reasons". Therefore, for the successful treatment of the child should carefully study the history of a family life, psychological peculiarities of the personality of the mother and close relatives (father, brothers, sisters, grandmothers, grandfathers) and find the conflict between them and the child. In the concept of the conflict lies not only quarrel, stress (although this is also a conflict), but life's vicissitudes that have to endure the child during the prenatal period. Oriental medicine traditionally considers that the child's life does not begin from the moment of birth, and from the moment of conception. The same opinion in modern psychology. Therefore, all that is experiencing a future mother, certainly appears on mental and physical health of the child. That's why our ancestors belonged to a pregnant woman as sacred essence - it was impossible to worry about, talk about, she did not refuse her wishes (even strange or that someone didn't like). A lot of the "taboo" was accompanied by the pregnancy of a woman - she could not to stare at the fire, walk at night (not to be frightened), to kill animals and even to pluck the berry in a strange garden (that was not birthmarks on the child), etc. In my experience was stunning case: during pregnancy, the woman poured upon himself the boiling water. It was OK, but the baby was born with a classic post-burn scars on his tummy. It would seem that it is impossible, but... I was first examined the boy, when he was 19 years old, and the skin of the abdomen (according to the mother by the way, the doctor - in those places where burned it during pregnancy!) still retained the real post-burn scars. So I think psychologists have every right to claim that traces of anger, resentment, despair, evil intentions, i.e. psychological trauma experienced by the woman during pregnancy, also remain on the child - mother and fetus form a psychosomatic unity and live in symbiosis. The child's brain works synchronously with the psyche of the mother, her feelings, thoughts, and strong sudden fear experienced by the mother remembers the unconscious psyche of the fetus. And even though what happened in utero, the person may not remember, but our subconscious stores all experienced negative emotions, which, no doubt, in the future become a powerful source of psychosomatic pathology. This is confirmed by modern psychology. Numerous authoritative studies of prenatal vital processes in a human embryo clearly prove that the violations of its development may be a consequence of inadequate treatment of the mother, unconscious or conscious perception of her unborn child. Found a significant correlation between the health of the infant and the mother during pregnancy.
LET THERE ALWAYS BE MAMA
Old Slavic traditions in common with the Eastern our forefathers believed that the age of the child from 0 to 7 years is a very important period in his life (the period of forming a kind of chakra - "sarada"), especially when the child needs protection and maternal love. It wakes up the fear of the unknown world, and how he will overcome your fear in this period, it depends on how they will perceive life in the future. The biggest fear of the child "don't love me". It can occur not only in childhood, but also when the baby is still inside the womb. The more depressed this fear, the better masked, the greater will be the disease, the worse she is subjected to treat because it is impossible to cure the consequences, not eliminating its causes. Hard going through the child and family conflicts. As a consequence, these children from an early age, often ill with tonsillitis, chronic rhinitis, bronchitisOhm, enuresis, neurodermatitis. Besides, during the first seven years of a child's life it is "reflected" any Psychotrauma mother. But the greatest misfortune of the child - when he does not feel himself near a loving mother. There is a special term - deprivation - the state when one feels a lack of basic necessities without which life is losing support and meaning. Most often, and most acutely this condition experience in early childhood, when there is not enough of my mother's love for a long time - the result is not only a feeling of hopelessness, despair, and physical diseases. The absence of love is not only a lack of attention to the child, but often excessive attention and psychological pressure, the requirement to live according to the views and tastes of parents when a child is born, "for itself" as a toy, depriving it of its initiatives. A vivid example. I got a boy of 8 years. He suffered from bronchial asthma, he often had headaches, any nosebleeds, was overweight (type "women's weight"), friendly, shy, but before something to answer, he certainly looked at her mother. Classic treatment for several years did not give a positive effect. Therefore, parents resorted to homeopathy. At first glance, the atmosphere in the family was good, pregnancy is normal, but my attention was attracted by the fact that all photo up to 2 years old the boy was dressed as a girl. Mother explained that this is her second child (the first - as a boy). The second child she just wanted to have a girl. Learning that again bear a son, she felt a terrible despair and kept himself with his son as a girl as during pregnancy and during the first two years of life. In this case, the behavior can be defined as an extreme form of arbitrariness, as it encroached on genetic given their child (sex is a genetic program). "Suppression" of the genetic program (like any hard training) subconsciously perceived as violence - voluntary dispute with nature doomed to failure of the mother and the tragedy of a child - so there is psychosomatic pathology, for example, bronchial asthma, diseases of the thyroid gland, gastrointestinal problems, neurosis.
THE CRYING OF A BABY ALARM
Bronchitis with asthmatic component, bronchial asthma, other respiratory diseases, accompanied by complications of breath, are very common among children. Most often we think that this is a consequence of frequent colds, pain cough, not considering one important aspect that certainly considers psychosomatic medicine and, undoubtedly, homeopathy. Breathing is not only a physiological function, but also a fundamental property of a state of their own "I", the expression of interpersonal relations of man and the expression of his inner state. The influence of emotions on respiratory function we observed even in the everyday life. Fear, anger leads to the fact that people begin to breathe more frequently. At the time of particular alarm say "caught the spirit." When man is in despair, he sighs. There is a theory, according to which, asthma attacks is suppressed crying turned to the mother. I had to treat a girl from bronchial asthma (BA). The treatment was successful only when realized the conflict that caused the illnessis pregnancy was unplanned, family there was a quarrel, and the woman decided to have an abortion. Long hesitated, but on the operating table as if she heard the words, "Mother, do not kill me!" and refused to commit evil. From the positions of psychosomatic medicine, psychological trauma experienced by the child in that time (acute fear of death), has become one of the most important trigger of asthma in the child. Bronchospasm attack in this case is the equivalent of shouting, crying, addressed to the mother at the moment of extreme danger. Because no psychological trauma organism does not forget, the subconscious carries through life imprinted stress, and after many years may experience physical ailments as a manifestation of mental disorder: when the soul is too heavy to carry through life's experiences of long stress, it is to be saved, drops them on the body. In General until the moment when it became known phenomenon of Allergy, asthma felt primarily nervous disease. Recently emotional etiology of bronchial asthma reanimated. According to the Chicago Institute for psychoanalysis, almost any unexpected intense emotional stimuli (sexual arousal, anxiety, fear, jealousy, anger can cause bronchospasm, and in a state of shock, sudden shocks can occur full stop breathing. Emotional factors by themselves are unlikely to create the proper conditions for the development of ad, but if a person biologically inclined to it, they trigger asthmatic process. Some researchers believe that the main therapeutic factor BA is a conflict that is too deep dependence on the mother.
AS TO "FORGET" THE TROUBLE
I am pleased to note that both of these examples is a happy ending. Both children were assigned homeopathic treatment is not on the main complaint, and the totality of symptoms, consideration of psychological conditions of development of the child. The key to understanding the disease, which helped to resolve the Central violation, was the psychological analysis of the relationship of mother and child. Homeopathic treatmentaimed at eradicating the consequences of deep emotional trauma brought permanent cure: for over 10 years these children do not suffer from bronchial asthma. Convinced that the effectiveness of homeopathy in such cases due to a holistic approach to treatment. After all, Dr. Hanneman long before psychosomatic medicine advised to consider any disease as a complex of physical and mental symptoms - a violation that occurs first, on a psychological level, and then covering the physical layer is the body. Homeopathy gently and effectively eradicate the disease together with her cause - effects of the experience of stress. Life is life. We cannot avoid situations that adversely affect the mother and child. But there are three exits. The first is to respect and protect the young mother as the giving force and the support of the baby. The second is during pregnancy to adhere to all warnings and first of all to think about the child's health. And thirdly, if we cannot change the circumstances, change the reaction to them - and this is the power of homeopathy. Moreover, the effectiveness of homeopathic remedies is not the only advantage. They are completely safe for a pregnant woman, and child.
Larisa GUTSOL, associate Professor of the Vinnitsa National medical University, candidate of medical science, doctor-homeopath, member of the European Committee for homeopathy.